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Intake form for couples

This form will help me to help you. I can better prepare for our sessions if I have this information here, and it will save us time (and therefore your money) if you fill it out before our first session.

Please do not compare your answers with those of your partner. It is important that I know about your personal opinion on many questions and not the agreed opinion of you as a couple. Also, try to be as honest as possible when filling in the form and answer as many questions as possible. If you feel that answering a question would emotionally overwhelm you, you can of course leave the question unanswered. However, you might let me know if this is the case.

INTAKE - COUPLES (EN)

Contact details

Please enter your contact information here. I am required by law to protocol most of this data. I also need some of the data for correspondence and if I need to reach you urgently, e.g. if there has been a change to your appointment at the last minute.


A. Demographic information


B. Family status


Please list all your children here with their names and ages in the order of their age with the eldest first. Click on the plus sign to add a child/age.

Please list all your children here with their names and ages in the order of their age with the eldest first. Click on the plus sign to add a child/age.

C. Information about your relationship


D. Marital history


E. Romantic relationship quality


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The questions in this section relate to the perceived quality of your relationship. Please answer them with the following scale from 1-5 where,

 1 = Always;

2 = Usually true;

3 = Sometimes true;

4 = Rarely true;

5 = Never true.

E3. The following questions are about how ACCESSIBLE your partner is to you from your viewpoint

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I can get my partner’s attention easily.
My partner is easy to connect with emotionally.
My partner shows me that I come first with him/her.
I am not feeling lonely or shut out in this relationship.
I can share my deepest feelings with my partner and he/she will listen.

 

E4. The following questions are about how ACCESSIBLE you are for your partner from your viewpoint

1 = Always;

2 = Usually true;

3 = Sometimes true;

4 = Rarely true;

5 = Never true.

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It is easy for my partner to get my attention.
I am emotionally very open, and it is easy for my partner to build an emotional connection to me.
I show my partner that they come first with me.
I make sure that my partner does not feel lonely or shut out in this relationship.
My partner can share their deepest feelings with me, and I will listen.

 

E5. The following questions are about how RESPONSIVE your partner is to you from your viewpoint

1 = Always;

2 = Usually true;

3 = Sometimes true;

4 = Rarely true;

5 = Never true.

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If I need connection and comfort, he/she will be there.
My partner responds to signals that I need him/her to come close.
I find I can lean on my partner when I am anxious or unsure.
Even when we fight or disagree, I know that I am important to my partner and we will find a way to come together.
If I need reassurance about how important I am to my partner, I can get it.

 

E6. The following questions are about how RESPONSIVE you are to your partner from your viewpoint.

1 = Always;

2 = Usually true;

3 = Sometimes true;

4 = Rarely true;

5 = Never true.

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If my partner needs connection and comfort, I will be there.
I respond to signals that my partner needs me to come close.
My partner can lean on me when they are anxious or unsure.
Even when we fight or disagree, I show my partner that they are important to me and we will find a way to come together.
If my partner needs reassurance about how important they are to me, they can get it.

 

E7. The following questions are about how emotionally ENGAGED you are with your partner from your viewpoint

1 = Always;

2 = Usually true;

3 = Sometimes true;

4 = Rarely true;

5 = Never true.

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I feel comfortable being close to and trusting my partner.
I can confide in my partner about almost anything.
I feel confident, even when we are apart, that we are connected to each other.
I know that my partner cares about my joys, hurts and fears.
I feel safe enough to take emotional risks (e.g. talking about shame, fear, etc.) with my partner.

 

E8. The following questions are about how emotionally ENGAGED your partner is with you from your viewpoint.

1 = Always;

2 = Usually true;

3 = Sometimes true;

4 = Rarely true;

5 = Never true.

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My partner feels comfortable being close to and trusting me.
My partner can confide in me about almost anything.
My partner feels confident, even when we are apart, that we are connected to each other.
My partner knows that I care about their joys, hurts and fears.
My partner feels safe enough to take emotional risks (e.g. talking about shame, fear, etc.) with me.

F. Health information

These questions relate to your mental and physical health


F2b.  Please list what medication you are taking for what symptoms. You can add further medication/symptoms by clicking on the plus symbols. 

Very bad Excellent
Very bad Excellent

H4a(i). Please list the parts/areas of your body where you feel pain. You can click on the plus symbol to add more.

Sehr schlecht Hervorragend
Things are terrible Could not be better